Seeing couples walking together, hand in hand makes me wonder if they are really happy in bliss. People are getting into relationships at a much younger age nowadays, but do they really know what it really means to be in love?
Being in love it's not about you liking that person and get together for the sake of getting together. Love is about you caring, understanding, being able to absorb all the shortcomings of the other party, giving your partner the sense of sercurity when being with you, having trust in each other.
Love is NOT a game. It doesn't develop overnight. It takes time for love to nurture. It can be very tiring at times when there is a point of giving up, but if you can endure, you will be in a happier relationship. Fights in relationships aren't a bad thing. Through quarrels and small fights, it gives you a deeper understanding of how each other feels and how you can improve and make things work. Off cause it doesn't mean that you must always fight or quarrel.
You don't have to be physically together or keep telling your partner that you love him/ her to prove that you love that person. Actions speak louder than words. Your partner can feel it. Though there is little response, he/ she knows.
It's important that you trust your partner. If there is no trust, what's the point for you being together? How are you going to ask your partner to trust you when you keep carrying suspicions whenever you are with that person? There is no point of being together when you keep lying. White lies might be harmless but if it continues, it's a whole different story.
In conclusion, love is tiring and don't commit if you are not sure of it.

sarah♥